Meaningful Miscarriage Gift Ideas for Mom After Miscarriage: Show That You Care After a Pregnancy Loss

Going through a miscarriage or pregnancy loss can be devastating.  If you have a friend or family member struggling with a miscarriage (or even multilple miscarraiges) and want to find a meaningful miscariage gift to show you care, we have compiled a list of 33 miscarriage gift ideas so that you can find that present perfect for your situation and needs.  The most important thing when it comes to miscarriage gifting is to keep in mind it really is the thought that counts. The below ideas include a range of interests, budgets and preferences.

1. A Commissioned Family Portrait: A Perfect Miscarriage Gift

I love the idea of a commissioned family portrait as a way of never forgetting the pregnancy after the loss. There are multiple artists doing beautiful work, check out Kierra B Art.

2. Show Your Support with a Book on Miscarriage

A book on miscarriage can help a grieving mom to feel less alone, here 3 that I recommend:
– Not Broken: An Approachable Guide to Miscarriage and Recurrent Pregnancy Loss by Lora Shahine, MD
– Grace Like Scarlett: Grieving with Hope after Miscarriage and Loss by Adriel Booker
– I Had a Miscarriage: A Memoir, a Movement by Jessica Zucker

3. Crystals Specific to Healing After Miscarriage

Crystals can be the perfect gift for a friend who leans a bit “woo” in her life. Try rose quartz which is a crystal of peace and unconditional love. It’s qualities include the ability to calm us, open our hearts and bring deep healing and self love. Or check out this pregnancy loss cyrstal gift set, here. 

4. A Meaningful Care Package

Show your friend you are thinking of her after miscarriage by putting together a  homemade care package with comforting items like tea, chocolate and fuzzy socks.  Read this article for ideas for creating a homemade Miscarriage Care Package. You can also check out my list of the best miscarriage care packages for all budgets.

5. Moving Thru Grief with Yoga

A gift card for a restorative yoga class (or better yet, an invitation to attend one together!) would be much appreciated by any yogi going through a miscarriage.

6. Provide Comfort Thru Food

Nothing says comfort like a home cooked meal.  If you live nearby, deliver your favorite homemade soup. If you don’t live nearby, try gifting a subscription to a meal planning service like Prep Dish.

7. Flowers with Meaning 

Flowers are a sure way to say I care. Buying white flowers makes the gift more meaningful as white flowers express love and purity and are a way to offer your condolences to someone going through pregnancy loss.

8. Use Your Words to Say I Care 

A handwritten card can be the most touching gift to give someone going through a miscarriage. Check out these cards here if you want to send a card on a significanct date, like the due date or the anniversary of the miscarriage.

9. Angels Have Significance After Loss

Angels and the term “angel baby” is often used to refer to a baby lost to soon due to miscarriage or still birth. Help a family to honor and remember their angel baby by buying a pair of angel wings, for example, as a Christmas ornament.

10. Encourage Self Care

A woman struggling with miscarriage certainly could use some self care, try gifting a favorite bath product like this lemongrass sugarbuff body polish  from Beautycounter, bonus in that it has a clean ingredient list, perfect for anyone worried about future fertility.

11. Miscarriage-Specific Journals

Putting words to paper can be an important part of the healing process and there are multiple options for guided journaling after miscarriage,  like The Miscarriage Map Workbook: An Honest Guide to Navigating Pregnancy Loss, Working Thorugh the Pain and Moving Forward by Sunita Osborn or The Miscarriage Grief Journal: 48 Journaling Prompts to Process the Loss of a Baby by Rachel Floyd. 

12. A Soothing Candle with Restorative Properties

Try this intentionally created “Restore” candle.  It is made with lavender for calmness, sage for mental clarity, eucalyptus for calming the throat and incense for balance and grounding.   

13. A Care Package for a Miscarriage Gift

Show you are thinking of someone by sending a care package curated specifically for miscarriage like these options from Good Grief.

14. The Softest Blanket, Ever 

What is more comforting than a warm, fuzzy blanket? I love the Barefoot Dreams brand, here. 

15. A Devotional Book to Connect After Miscarriage

I love this devotional book for the beleiver in your life, Held: 31 Biblical Reflections on God’s Comfort and Care in the Sorrow of Miscarriage by Abbey Wedgeworth. 

16. A Thoughtul Ultrasound Frame 

A quoted ultrasound frame, like this one here, is perfect to help honor the pregnancy.

17. A Jizo Statue to Remember the Loss

Jizo is the Buddhist deity known as protector of miscarried babies. He is said to hide them in his robes for safety and guides their souls to safe passage to their afterlives.  Even if your recipient is not Buddhist, this statue can be a meaningful way to honor the loss, find options linked here. 

18. Buy Groceries to Help During a Difficult Time

Use your local grocery delivery service to send food! When I do this for friends, I include everything from fruit to a favorite sausage to dark chocolate to flowers!  You could also include ingredients for a favorite (easy-to-prepare) meal. 

19. A Necklace to Never Forget

 I love the idea of a “Forget Me Not” necklace, often made using the seed of a Forget Me Not flower, here is a link with multiple options.

20. A Hug-in-a-Mug with Rose Tea 

This caffeine free rose tea from Siply is a like a warm hug in a mug! Not only that, but each ingredient serves a powerful purpose.  Rooibos is an immune-boosting powerhouse, rose helps relieve anxiety, tulsi is a stress soother and dandelion supports detox.

21. A Stone with Meaning

A miscarriage memorial stone, like this, is a thoughtful gift to help the parents remember the baby for years to come. 

22. A Journal to Aid the Grieving Process

Journaling can be an important part of the grieving process. I love that the cover of these lined-notebooks from Papier can be customized to include a name and short message.  

23. Flowers Everywhere to Show You Care

Forget-Me-Not seeds like these from Earth Mama allow for your recipient to plant flowers.  As a bonus the time spent digging in the dirt can be especially therapeutic.

24. Angel Wing Necklace to Remember a Pregnancy

These delicate angel wing necklaces from Dear Ava are a great way to show you care.

25. A Unique Gift After Miscarriage

If you’re looking for a unique gift, try these windchimes with a customized message. 

26. A House Plant as a Gentle Reminder

Flowers are nice, but a houseplant can be cherished for years to come.  I love the selection at, https://www.thesill.com/

27. A Coloring Book as Therapy 

 Gift an adult coloring book to help provide relaxing comfort during times of struggle and grief.

28. A Spa Treatment to Show You Care

Looking for something practical? Buy a gift card for a spa treatment like a massage or pedicure.  Or better yet, set aside time to go to the spa together, your treat!

29. Birthstone Jewelry is Meaningful After Miscarriage

If you’re looking for a gift that is special and meaningful, consider a piece of jewelry with the birthstone from the month of the loss. Here are some necklace options.

30. A Special Candle to Honor Pregnancy Loss

Buy a personalized, eco-friendly memorial candle like this one from Laurelbox.

31. Help Source Support with the Services of a Doula 

Did you know there are doulas that specialize in miscarriage and loss?  Search your area to find a local doula who may be able to help.

32. A Heart-Adorned Mug to Show Your Love

I love this adorable handmade coffee/ tea mug with hearts. Try pairing it with a favorite tea or coffee.

33. A New Lip Gloss to Put A Smile On Her Face

Who doesn’t love a new lip gloss?  I suggest this one from Beautycounter which is clean and non-toxic.

Make it Meaningful! 

Showing you care to a friend or family member going through miscarraige is all about being thoughtful.  A text to offer a meal, a card to let you know you are thinking of her or a small but significant gift all show that you care.

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